分手后我还能是你的谁

两个人从相识、相知到相爱，在交往一段时间后，由于种种的原因，最后不欢而散，在分手时，总有一方会说出那句最真实的谎言——希望我们还能是朋友。如果是我，并且觉得自己非常的受伤，彼此爱过，恨过，就不可以做朋友，我想也只能做最熟悉的陌生人了。未曾刻骨铭心,分手后做朋友谈何容易?
　　
　　分手后 我还能是你的谁
　　
　　分手后不能做朋友。我选择做陌生人的理由是：既然分手了，就不要再有暧昧的关系，那样只会让自己伤心，难受，进也不是，退也不是，既然分手了，就彻底的退出，快乐的生活，开心是现在唯一的追求。我只能对他说句对不起，不管是什么原因，分手了就分手了，既然我们不能再相互爱下去，就让我们做陌生人吧。　
　　
　　分手后不能做朋友。如果你曾经深深的爱过这个人，她曾经是你生命中不可分割的一部分，那么怎么去转换角色，才能若无其事的把他看成是一个朋友？这对大多数人来说，恐怕都是难以做到的。
　　
　　分手后不能做朋友。如果说分手后，还会保持联系，这只能说明有一方还没真正放下对方，他还不愿从对方的生活中彻底消失，所以会找各种看似很冠冕堂皇的理由去接近对方。可是，扪心自问，如果你们是真正的爱过一场的话，如果他真的对不起你，真的能做成朋友？NO，因为现实是残酷的,并没有我们想象的那么多姿多彩。　
　　分手后不能做朋友。假设双方分手之后都另结新欢，你却仍以旧爱做朋友，新情人心里怎么想。谁不认为你与旧爱是藕断丝连呢？新欢必然心中不满，更怕在拉拉扯扯中搞出一个对角关系来。虽然也有一些相安无事的例子，但这些故事总不免令人听出一丝尴尬来。当你看到旧情人，你又怎能忘记曾与她同甘共苦一起走过的日子？除非未曾刻骨铭心。
　　
　　分手后不能做朋友。看着自己以前的恋人,与别人亲亲我我、欢天喜地，你心里真的就那么平衡吗？人都是有尊严的，何必自找苦吃呢？还是早点脱离苦海，把它封在心里，怀念，或者扔掉它，重新过自己的生活这才是明智之举！
　　
　　分手后不能做朋友。分手了，不做朋友是为了不再给对方希望，不给任何机会，这个人没爱过你或者已经不再爱你，再抱着希望简直是一种酷刑，放手，反而是大家解脱的最好办法，而做为任何一方，既然没有了爱，也就没有必要苦恋不舍了。所以，既然没有缘分一路同行的走下去，那就彻底分开吧，默默的祝福你，但是我的生活中，已经没有你。
　　
　　分手后不能做朋友。分手之后仍要做一对朋友，岂不是把过去的一切又带回自己的生活中？何苦呢？歌里就这样唱到：“日复一日，年复一年，淡忘了原初的伤疤，只是一回想起来，还是有一丝隐隐的酸楚在脑海里残留着，久久不能散去。曾经挚爱的人转眼间已成陌路，那份爱也已经随风而逝，说是可以忘记，可生活就象表演，不经意间的相遇，看着她远去的背影往昔一样在脑海间漂动，那种伤是难以语表的。慢慢发现，激情与浪漫已渐渐远去，难以再爱。 ”

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Random

Boring Life

Everyday Just.....

Work...

Work......

WORK.........

Remember me NOT

Do NOT remember me when you NEED me, i will IGNORE you!

爱情

什么是爱情，让人又爱又恨。

问世间情为何物！

wats happening

ya, wats happening...
quite happening these few days,
Common test, frenz birthday, new events coming....
more activities coming
yet i was still so emo-ing...

after common test de last paper on thursday
we went out enjoy with eric, jj, chris, penny, wan man, jolene, and last but not least myself.
hope i did not miss out anyone...
went to see movie
watched The day the earth stand stood
after tat went pool till late nite
almost miss my last LRT train

the next day is "CHIN" birthday !!!
but i went swimming in the morning
wif eric, jj, chris, bao long, cq and myself.
got eric to teach jj and me swimming,
my swimming got better so did jj :P
after tat me and jj went to meet with chin, hui, kok leong and quek for movie.
watched "Twilight" lo
heard was damn nice show but
i'm a bit disappointed lo, coz not really wat i expected to be really tat exciting.
feel like kana cheated.
but nvm, its chin birthday =)
and first time saw her wearing a dress lo
so kawaii :p
Chin! u should wear tat more, really nice =)

den again next day is my classmate, mei qin birthday
haha... i almost forget lo
till eric called me and say he coming over to sengkang
den shun bian come over to my hse lo
den after tat we play 2 round of data (leave half way)
haha....
den was dragged over to mei qin house.
i so PS lo nv buy any present :P

after tat they stay there for swimming [mahjong] session...
haha...
due to i duno how to play so i left after sometime...
let her hse at 7, go bring HQ to her hse den i go home liao

really alot of things upcoming,
next wk tue going oversea le...
:p
1 more DAY!!!
TIME to ENJOY!

big spender

haiz, was kinda of getting lazy recently...
duno why but do wat oso sian sian de...
common test coming, no need study
waiting for holiday to come.
today just went out brought two ticket to china
planning to go china find a wife :p
haha.....
jus joking, just went walk walk play play see see eat eat
jus enjoy the 2 week holiday ba.
this sem sch was kinda of boring and stress
was bored to death, almost fall asleep in every lesson
dun think is let of slp ba
i slp like usually 12am or latest 1am
only 1 or 2 day slp at 2am.

okay 1 bad news to me,
spend almost 5k this year alone le
duno how the hell i got so much money
i didnt notice untill i go add up all together lo
i'm sooooo BIG spender lo
got money spend all le.... hais... still thinking if i able to save and buy a car
look like i think need wait for another 5 years liao
lols....

okay let me list what i spended. i think more den 5k

New Desktop - $1.6k
New Laptop - $1.65k
Air Ticket - $650
Ipod Touch - $388
NAS - $400
Misc Stuff - $1k
Food etc - $2k

Total : $7288

Wahaha more than what i expected wor... i think still got some hidden course.
look like i got to do something to myself liao
else i would be begger 1 day le.

But first think how to fucking hell did i get those money from?
good question!
how the hell i know
i nv work for the whole year.
only some misc bangala job.
OMG !
i'm old man liao, how come i dun rmb anything?
:(
haisssssssssssssssss........................................................................

Treasure / Cherish

Treasure what you have now before its GONE
You won't know what tomorrow will be.
You can't predict what tomorrow what will happen.

Cherish what you have before you eyes.

Timeless

argh ~

why clock only show 24 hours a day?
why time only got 24hour a day?

Why Why Why

I need more time....

i'm early bird / Thanks Ceremony

wow... today i reach school at 8.45 wow.. when lesson start at 9.
for after a long time of missing lesson or late for class.
first time reach so early again.
surprise rite?
haha....
coz today the bus driver very shiok lo
he bypass so many stop coz of full bus
den once reach YCK MRT
72 jus arrive and i aboard the bus
thats why i so early today

thx to eric oso saying i sure late today
wahaha ...............

first i would like to thanks eric
second i would like to thank cq for morning call
third i would like to thanks my phone for 2nd alarm
fourth i would like to thanks bus 86
lastly i would like to thanks bus 72


jus another stupid random post.
i got nothing better to do now

buddy

jus saw jj's post.
thanks jj
u r really a nice guy.
and cq too.

they know i got problem they will come talk to me
chat with me.
best buddies tat i ever had.
eric too, althrough when call him
he seldom will pick up phone
but he cares for all his buddies too.

jj dun be sad.
i know you will soon recover from it.
you can de.
you still have us.
your buddies.
we will be your buddies for life.
you may lose something
but u have gain new buddies
that care and concern you.

take care...

Random

wodner why i am still here posting
was raining jus now so decided not to go photo taking

lie on bed
thinking....
thinking....
and thinking....


somethings i think i'm really a failure
no matter being a human,
a friend,
or being a bf.

somethings i really think i shouldn't be here
have i came to the wrong world?

i wish to be a person that every loves.
what am i lagging?

there are people saying, wow... cw u r such a nice person
but isit really from their true heart?
or isit just to please me so that i would help them in the future?

friends? what are friends for? i dunno...
i have so many good and best friends
during secondary school.
they call themselves my good buddies,
but what happen when i need help?
what happen after we graduated from sec sch?
where are you guys?

yes, i have 3 good buddy now.
buddy since ITE, but will the history replay again?
i'm scare, i dare not think.
but i still believe them, we will be the best buddies for lives.
thx for being there for me. jj, cq,eric.
they are really nice guys
they will encourge me when i'm down
support me when i need
be there when i'm sad

i'm failure for being a bf too.
5yrs ago had my first gf
for the first time being a bf.
FAILED
broke up after 1mth

now i have a second chance.
i really love her
but i duno if my caring for her is wrong
what should i do?
i know such thing is nobody can teach de
so i oso been trying to be a bf.
just praying that everything will get better
i really dont want to hurt her or anyone

feeling sad now.
going out for a drink with jj later
and chat with him.
really thx tat i have such a good buddies by my side.

thanks....